My husband is depressed, I think. He has withdrawn emotionally from me. We have been married for 19 years. During that time he has had problems with depression. Now he wants to leave because he doesn't like the man he is and he doesn't want to be the man I think he is. Jeez! Since we've been married he's lied to me, had an affair (flew to the Ukraine to meet some Ukraine women he met online), we've moved to a far north state, I agreed to move because he promised if I didn't like we could return home (I don't like it and he won't move)...the list goes on. (it's evident that this isn't a good relationship but....

The problem? he's choosing our son's senior year to move out. I've asked him to stay until he graduates. He will for now, but there can be no conflict between us or he's gone (his words). I don't know if I can do it!  I love my son and want to keep our family together but I am not doing well with the "new "arrangement...a emotionless marriage.

What would you do?